On the political dehumanising of autistic people.

In a speech to Congress, the US Health (sic) Secretary, recently declared that autistic children “will never pay taxes, never hold a job, never play baseball, never write a poem, never go out on a date and many may never use a toilet unassisted…It has to stop”. That statement is profoundly dehumanising and deeply inaccurate.

When I started this blog last year, I wanted to help change attitudes to and stereotypes about neurodivergent people of all kinds. Ageing Autistically is for people who’ve felt different for most of their lives and have only recently found out why. It’s also for anyone who is interested in understanding better. I can only speak from my own experience, and everyone is different, but there’s a growing body of up-to-date thinking and research that needs to be widely shared.

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What are you doing at the weekend?

It was a Summer Sunday morning in Brighton, our home city at the time. Soon I would need to get my head into gear for another long week, but before I did, I was looking forward to a peaceful day. We both had long commutes and needed some headspace. Maybe we’d go to a favourite garden for a wander. Or we could walk down to the seafront, mingle with the tourists and laugh at the gulls hovering overhead, waiting to steal a chip or a sandwich from the unwary. Before we had chance to decide, the phone rang.

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Cheer up love!

Like many autistic women, my resting face isn’t naturally smiley. I’d call it neutral, but some people make judgements. One morning, I was walking home with a bag full of lovely local produce for lunch and dinner, enjoying the sunshine and in my own little world. I saw a man up a ladder, cleaning windows, and was about to say good morning to him when he shouted, “cheer up love! It can’t possibly be as bad as that!”

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